Next weekend marks 3 years since Kalil McCoy was killed ... The 20-year old Andrew Jackson student was shot two weeks after graduation by her former friend after they left Plush nightclub in Arlington. ...The fight escalated over rolling up the window in their SUV... The shooter - Frederick Wade is serving life in prison. Classmate Jonathan Brooks was sentenced to 15 years for helping hide her body in a Tallyrand neighborhood. The other two men - served less than one year as accomplices in the killing. This Friday - McCoy's mother is hosting a women's conference, to help other victims of violence... Channel 4's Hailey Winslow spoke with Lynnette Roebuck about what she's overcome... Hailey. 3 3 3 3 Roebuck has been a licensed and ordained minister since 2000 - helping people to trust God through tragic events... When 3 years ago - on Father's Day - tragedy hit her right in the face...And secretly, she says, she blamed God ...It's something she's had to work through over the last 3 years and now she's hoping to help others do the same. 3 00-0549-541'14-1'1811:47 LYNNETTE 1'1811:47 LYNNETTE ROEBUCK, KALIL MCCOY'S MOM: "In order to really move on, you have to forgive, you have to."> it's the message Lynnette Roebuck hopes to pass along to other mother's dealing with tragedy at her women's conference Friday.it's taken her almost 3 years to forgive the man who took her daughter's life. Frederick Wade was sentenced to life in prison after shooting Kalil McCoy in the head in a SUV...Roebuck is planning to visit him behind bars and tell him she forgives him. but it's been a process... she 's battled depression and gained a lot of weight... ... McCoy's twin brother has found healing writing and performing music... ...Roebuck won a wrongful death lawsuit against Wade's family... and she's in the process of filing the same suit against the other 3 men in the SUV that day... But she's forgiven them, and she's hoping to encourage other women to do the same. 3 The Women's Ministry is this Friday, June 13th at 7pm at the Tabernacle International Deliverance Ministry.That's located at 3548 Gilmore Street, which is on the westside near Edgewood Avenue and I-10.On June 21st, her family plans to release purple balloons from Jacksonville Beach in Kalil's memory. 3 Hailey, what plans does her family have for the Kalil McCoy project?Her family is planning a community center that will include a dance studio, a place for women to get makeovers and all dolled up...as well as grief counselors because it will be specifically designed to help people going through tragedies like McCoy's family has.They also have these Kalil McCoy bracelets to spread the word.