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Think you know what your teen’s texts say? How to crack the code

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Studies show 46% of sexually active high schoolers didn’t use a condom the last time they had sex. And almost half of 12th graders reported trying an illicit drug at least once.

If you think you can read your teen’s texts to find out what they’re up to, think again. Code words are now a popular practice among young people, and if you don’t know the lingo, you’re out of luck.

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Some of the words your teen uses could be code for sex, drugs, or other risky behaviors. Here are some common phrases teens use that should put their parents on high alert.

When your teen talks about “candy,” it could really be crack cocaine or ecstasy.

“Brown sugar” is code for heroin, and “getting some blueberries” might actually refer to painkillers like Percocet.

A talk about “footballs” may really be a conversation about Xanax. The nickname describes the shape of the oval tablet.

The phrase “Netflix and chill” might sound harmless, but it really refers to sexual activity.

“Giving up the gold” is code for a teen who loses their virginity.

And a text that reads “CU46” means “see you for sex.”

The U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration has compiled a comprehensive report that contains thousands of nicknames teens use for drugs of every class. Check it out here.


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