From taking out the trash to cleaning up toys, chores are part of growing up. But many kids today are doing fewer of them than generations before.
Research shows, though, that everyday chores may play a big role in how kids grow up, whether they like them or not.
An 85-year Harvard study found that children who do chores are more likely to develop confidence, responsibility, and even empathy.
The study found that chores can teach kids how to work with others, take responsibility and follow through on tasks.
The key? Start small and start early. Toddlers can begin with simple tasks like putting toys away or helping with groceries
Four to five-year-olds can help feed pets, make their beds, and as kids grow, so can their responsibilities.
From 6 to 7, kids can wipe tables and counters, put laundry away, and sweep floors.
Experts also say consistency matters. Making chores part of a routine, not a punishment, helps kids see them as a normal part of life.
And what about paying kids for chores? Some families do; some don’t.
Experts say it depends on age. On average, for kids ages 5 to 10, 50 cents to $5. For middle schoolers, $1 to $10, and for high schoolers, $5 to $15.
So, while chores may feel like a struggle now, they may be building something much bigger.
Experts agree that it can be a way to teach the value of money.
Research from GoHenry says that 84% of parents feel they would have made better financial decisions if they had received financial education before the age of 18.
Here’s another benefit: Chores help build what experts call “executive function.” Those are the skills kids use to plan, follow directions and get things done.
Even simple tasks, like “put your toys away, then have a snack,” help teach sequencing and self-control. And over time those skills can make school and life a lot easier.