After they’ve made the grades, excelled at the extras, and gotten a high school diploma, more than 60% of high school grads head to college after graduation.
But campus counselors say academics aren’t the main reason freshmen struggle.
It’s the things no one taught them, how to advocate for themselves, manage freedom and handle adult responsibilities.
Experts call it the “invisible curriculum.” The skills students are expected to have, but no one puts in a textbook.
“It’s change, and change can feel a little bit hard,” said Ashley Maddox, First Generation Program Coordinator at Seminole State College.
First, let’s do the math! Many students get their first credit card without understanding interest, minimum payments or how fast small purchases add up.
On average, college kids carry $4,000 of debt on a credit card, and when it comes to tuition, that’s where not knowing can cost you!
“Everywhere you look in college, there is someone or some department that is here to help, and the idea of all these resources, they’re here to lead to student success. Don’t be afraid to ask for help,” explained Maddox.
Another big shock? Managing time. Kids need to know how to read a syllabus, email a professor professionally and use office hours.
“They’re lacking the ability to do things without frequent reminders. Even waking themselves up and just planning enough time to study and do things outside of the classroom,” said Maddox.
Have your student practice building a daily schedule now because learning to balance freedom and responsibility is a major adjustment.
Experts say decision-making and responsibility are the real game-changers.
Also, don’t forget, “They have to practice self-advocacy, and that’s going to lead them to grow and be successful,” explained Maddox.
And maybe the most important thing you can teach them now? How to be more independent!
Fewer parents are covering the full cost of college than in years past. About 36% paid the entire bill for their child in 2024, down from 43% in 2016.
Experts say that makes it even more important for families to have early, honest conversations about who will pay for what and to take advantage of available financial aid resources.
You can learn more about grants, loans, and other options by filling out the FAFSA at studentaid.gov.